thanks for your input 
i did do some balencing with the gain on the amps but there is too much trebble and bass. i need more mid tones.
i'm not going to change this system but i have learned so much that my next system is going to be a bad ass 
i'll have to save your post cos there is lots of useful stuff there.
i think my system is ok apart from the lack of mid tones.
the sub is stuffed with toy stuffing to mute it so it wasn't so over powering.
i don't like strong bass, i think it's kinda chav 