Wow! A massive thank you for taking the time out for the reply above I really do appreciate it.
I still have some time on the 3 month warranty I have when buying the car so i am going to book it in today to get it relooked at and in between the time I book it in and the time they will want it to be dropped off at the dealership, which I am guessing will be early next week, I will get it looked at by an independent as well. So if they tell me that in their opinion there is no problem with the clutch then I can present evidence that says otherwise and I will do everything with a back up email to the person who sold it to me and anyone else I communicate with at the dealership from now onwards.
The funny thing that the service manager said as I was picking it up from getting looked at last time he said that it is actually a good little car and in really good condition which I would agree apart from the clutch, low mpg and taking a while to start!