The starter motor does overdrive on start up, probably due to ign switch but was still starting ok... yep fuses by OBD and in engine bay, checked them all.... interestingly the fuel pump doesn't seem to run, can't hear it priming, no click that I usually hear either, so my thoughts turned to the Fuel Pump Relay which also I believe is referred to as the Main Relay that controls fuel pump AND ECU, made perfect sense...but I've checked the relay with pos and neg wires rigged to battery, the relay clicks just fine, but swapped it anyway. Still no fuel pump or ECU.